Sunday, November 6, 2011

“The most important thing in life is your family. There are days you love them, and others you don’t. But, in the end, they’re the people you always come home to. Sometimes it’s the family you’re born into and sometimes it’s the one you make for yourself."
 – SATC 
I've made a lot of mistakes concerning friendships, and I've wronged a lot of people. But I've realized through that, that the one's that matter are the ones that you will fight with and you'll both cry for hours over it for nothing. You'll drift apart from them, but you realize you've never been closer. You can pick out the person you miss the most, and you'll pick them even though you still speak with them everyday. I think you miss the exclusiveness, but in the end you realize if you love someone so much, you need to share them with the world. You need to show the world that they're much more than just this person you know.
What defines a best friend?
What are the requirements to be a good best friend?
How many hours a week does it entail?
Stupid questions that have no answers. A best friend is not defined by how many times they talk on the phone, or how many hours they hang out together. It is not defined by how many sleepovers they gossip at, or how many inside jokes they have. There are no requirements or laws that state that a good best friend must hang out with them every weekend, or tell each other every little detail. A best friend is a matter of opinion. It is the person who has been there for you through everything, not just through the fun things, or the little things. It is the person that you call when you are at your absolute worst, it is the person who saves you when you didn't even notice that you needed saving, mostly it is the person who accepts you for who you are, & the person that you are becoming.
"We can spend our lives letting the world tell us who we are. Sane or insane. Saints or sex addicts. Heroes or victims. Letting history tell us how good or bad we are. Letting our past decide our future. Or we can decide for ourselves. And maybe it’s our job to invent something better." 
Don’t feel stupid if you don’t like 
what everyone else pretends to love. 
— Emma Watson 

quit protecting yourself.
what are you hiding from?
cause that’s what you’re missing out on.
you may be safe, but you’re not alive.
You want to know what living life to the fullest actually is?
It's waking up on a Monday morning with no complaints.
It's knowing you always deserve to laugh.
 It's doing what feels right no matter what.
It's doing what you want to, no matter how stupid you look.
It's about being yourself, because no one can tell you you're doing it wrong.

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